Your first chat

1. Confirm you're an adult

The first time you visit, we ask you to confirm you're 18 or older. In some places the law also requires a quick age check before you see anything adult; see Why we check your age.

2. Choose a companion

Browse the companions and open any profile to see her photos, her story and what she's into. When you find someone you like, tap Chat.

You can try 5 free messages without an account. To keep your chats and her memories, create a free account: your chat comes with you, and the free messages are shared between the two, so signing up doesn't add more.

3. Say hello

Talk to her the way you'd talk to anyone. A few tips for better replies:

• Tell her about yourself. Your name, what you do, what kind of day you've had. She'll remember the important parts.
• Set the scene. If you want a story or roleplay, describe where you are and what's happening.
• Be specific. "Tell me about your weekend" gets a better answer than "hi".
• Go back if a reply misses. You can rewind to an earlier message and take the chat in a different direction. Free accounts get a few rewinds a day; paid plans have unlimited.

4. Ask for a photo

On a paid plan, ask her for a selfie, an outfit or something more private, and she'll send a photo. The price in Sins is shown before anything is charged. See Asking for photos.

If she refuses something

Companions say no to anything against our rules, and steer the conversation somewhere else. That isn't a bug. See Why a message, photo or video was refused.